I don’t know about you, but I’m feeling completely shattered today, Friday. Not sure whether it’s the after effects of the kids being back-at-school. Or more likely the change in temperatures – it was positively wintry this morning as I biked down to the beach for my swim this morning, eek! Don’t tell my DDH (Dear Danish Husband) but I actually switched on the heating last night…
So here’s a little joke to get the weekend going!
An Italian, a Swede and a Dane were standing in a bar. Showing off.
The Italian said, “When I put my hands around my wife’s waist, my fingers are able to touch. And that isn’t because I have large hands. But because Italian women have such tiny waists!”
The Swede, not to be outdone, said, “When my wife sits on a bar stool, her feet touch the ground. And that isn’t because we have small barstools in Stockholm. But because Swedish women have such long legs!”
The Dane was a bit stumped. He thought for a moment and said, “When I leave for work in the morning, I pat my wife on the behind. And when I come home, her bottom is still wobbling. And that’s not because Danish women have big behinds. But because we Danes have such short working hours!”
Boom, boom! And hooray for the Danish work-life balance?!
Have a fabulous (short working) Friday and a wonderful weekend!
We did some island-hopping for our summer holidays this year. A week in Crete, Greece. And several days on the Danish island of Bornholm, in the Baltic. And we managed to do all the things you have to do when on Bornholm.
Eat a (freshly caught) fish (and chips) lunch at one of the harbours.
Lots of swimming followed by lots of local Bornholmsk icecream.
Buy several bags of local toffee and hard-boiled sweets.
Though, if you’ve seen my previous post about liquorice — Lakrids. The Danish Root (of all evil). — you’ll appreciate that wandering onto a street and been confronted with the mother-ship of Danish liquorice, Johan Bulow, fairly stopped me in my tracks! Blech! 😛
But, as usual, I digress!
Just across from the (blech!) liquorice shop, we came across this grid.
And this rather cryptic sign.
“Hønseskidning, onsdage kl. 19, lørdage kl. 13, pris per nummer kr. 10”. Which literally translates as “Chicken Sh*tt*ng, Wednesdays at 7pm, Saturdays at 1pm. Tickets cost kr. 10”.
Yep, you buy a ticket. They release three chickens into the ‘arena’. First poop gives third prize, second poop gives second prize and the final, third poop, gives you first prize…
Sadly, we weren’t in Svaneke on a Wednesday or a Saturday. Boo! But it certainly looks like good, clean (okay, maybe not quite so clean…) fun for all the family. My bff has 6 dwarf chickens…perhaps she should start renting them out for school fêtes and local festivals?
When was the last time you wrote a letter? A real one. Perhaps a postcard? Or a greetings card, written with a pen, safely tucked up in an envelope, address finely printed on the front? But then comes the difficult part. Procuring a stamp!
Although the number of Danish post offices seems to spiral ever downward (while the price of Danish stamps continues to rocket upward), you can now access Danish stamps 24 hours a day. Straight to your mobile phone. It’s a service called “MOBILPORTO”. (There’s also an app if you’re in the habit of buying large numbers of stamps…) Anyway, you send a text/SMS to 1900. Write the weight of the letter, whether you want it sent first or second class post, then the destination country. So, when I want to send a letter first class to the UK, I write “20g A Storbritannien”. Or papers secondclass to Denmark would be, “50g B Danmark”.
First you’ll receive a reply, asking if you want to proceed with the transaction. Once you reply “Ja” (after swooning at the cost these days of the cheapest first class stamp to Europe: kr 14, USD 2.50, UK£1.50…), Post Danmark sends you the virtual stamp: a code of letters and numbers, to be written in the top right hand corner of the envelope.
Quick and easy! Then all that’s left to do is remember to post the dang thing (‘cos the code expires within 7 days.)! 😉
Still prefer the old school way and want to lick your stamps? Never fear, you can still buy “real” stamps online from Post Danmark. They have awebshop and will even post them out to you. For free. Imagine that – no pesky Danish postal charges! 😉
You check into a hotel, rent a summerhouse or stay with Danish family and the double bed has – not one – but two (count ’em) duvets!
Now, is it just me, or don’t two separate single duvets on one bed always look messy, no matter how you fold them or tuck them in? And do couples really need to have their own ‘private’ individual duvet? I’ve always had a theory that single duvets are a contributing factor to the (staggeringly high) Danish divorce rate. No wonder, if they insist on having everything their own way and aren’t prepared to share! 😛
So in order to (hopefully) keep my marriage running smooth, I’ve always insisted that DDH (dear Danish husband) and I share a double duvet. Though we do have a large, kingsize one. As some people (who shall remain nameless) like to hog the dang thing! 😉
Have a fabulous Friday and a wonderful weekend between the sheets!
As you saw in my Monday post – Back to (the new) school (reform)! – my two little darlings are back at school and life has returned to normal. Or is this just the calm before the proverbial storm? We may be coming up for a turbulent six months. Should we be ringing round relatives? Looking at venues? Choosing outfits? Making wishlists?
Why? Well just look at this autumn’s school timetable for DS14 (Dear Son, aged 14)
Don’t see it? Look closely!
Yes, besides the usual suspects of French, Maths, Christianity, Modern Studies, etc, etc, etc, there’s a new kid on the block. “Præst” (Priest). Tuesdays and Thursday afternoons from 2 til 2.50pm. The official name is “konfirmationsforberedelsen” (confirmation preparation). Our DS14 has just started 8th grade and is therefore coming up to the first (should he choose to accept it) ‘milestone’ in his life. Confirmation. To be, or not to be (confirmed). That is the question!
My DDSIL (Dear-Danish-Sister-in-Law) was already on the phone to us last year, asking if she and DDBIL should keep any weekends in April or May 2014 free for a possible confirmation celebration. Say what? Well, in Jutland, children are confirmed in the 7th grade. So she was just phoning to be on the safe side. Anyway, here in Copenhagen, it’s 8th grade. So the time is, um, almost now. Yikes! Time to find a party venue!
Now, here’s something which floored me… “Confirmation preparation” is part of the Danish school timetable. Imagine that! In a country where I have yet to meet someone who is a churchgoer! 😛 But even though it’s factored in to the school day, participation at the classes is entirely voluntary. As well as church rituals and some Bible study, the preparation classes delve into life’s big questions. Birth, death, love, sex, education, friendships, work/life balance, marriage…
DS14 is undecided about the whole Danish rite of passage. On the one hand, there is the lure of a party in his honour, with songs and speeches by friends and family. (Very similar to a Danish wedding!) Not to mention the even more alluring prospect of gifts and lots of cool cash. Remember my post When Blue Monday isn’t New Order? In 2011 the average amount of gifts raked in by ‘konfirmander’ was a staggering 17,000 kroner (US $3,200 or GB £1,980). Give us the money! 😉
On the other hand, DS14 is very scientific (well, yes, he’s in a special Biotech class, for Pete’s sake!) and swears by The Big Bang. (The theory and the television series.) So feels it would be wrong to be confirmed in church as he doesn’t “believe” in God. As parents, we’ve told him that the decision is entirely up to him. DDH (Dear Danish Husband) was confirmed when he was a lad but today is an atheist. I’m not confirmed (we don’t have the equivalent in the Church of Scotland) and know nothing about the Bible, but I do believe that there is a God. Of some kind.
Funnily enough, I bumped into our old parish priest (she christened our DD12 when DD was a babe in arms) down at the sea the other week . The priest (or, minister, as we say in Scotland) asked how the kids were getting on and I mentioned DS14’s dilemma. She said, “Tell him not to take it so seriously!” She thought that it was a real shame that so much pressure put on the kids to “believe” or “measure their faith” and she herself encouraged them to relax and enjoy the tradition. Who doesn’t love a party? Besides – as the Danes are always quick to point out – confirmation is not in fact the child saying “Yes” to God. It’s God saying “Yes” to the child! 😉
But back to DS14. To be, or not to be (confirmed)? Well, for the moment, he’s decided to “gå til præst” and take part in the classes. And make a reasoned decision (complete with venn diagrams?) later.
Watch this space! There might be more between heaven and earth…
Hooray! The school holidays are over! As my winterbathing buddy, H., said to me this morning, “Skønt! Endelig hverdag igen!” (Nice! Finally back to everyday life!) Much as we love our little darlings, we Mums are rather glad to see the back of the six week break. But – surprise, surprise – even my kids were looking forward to starting school this morning. Not because they have to start packing (pesky) lunchboxes again. But because of the new Danish school reform. Yep, the dice are up in the air and no-one knows how they’re going to land! 🙂
If you live in Denmark, you can’t possibly have missed the (mainly doom and gloom) coverage of the school reform. “The end of the world is nigh!” Well, we prefer to look at the changes with optimism.
First up, “heldagsskolen”. All-day school. You have to take that with a pinch of salt, because Danish kids aren’t really in school for that long at all. My DD12 (dear daughter, aged 12) used to be in school from 8am to around 1.35pm. The rest of the afternoon is normally spent at the school’s ‘after school club’. Now my kids will be at school a little longer: 33 hours per week for DD12, 35 hours for DS14 (dear son, aged 14).
At our school kids will be taught English from the age of 6 (as opposed to the current age of 9). Our local council has also decided to give kids their first taste of English at nursery and kindergarten. Amazing! A second language (my kids could choose German or French, both chose French) from the age of 11.
In addition to their regular Physical Education class, our kids will now do 45 minutes of some form of “movement” every day. We haven’t had any details yet but there will certainly be climbing (our school has a climbing wall and several teachers who are certified instructors) and there was talk of bringing in, e.g. yoga teachers, during the lunchbreak.
One of the most controversial changes is that there will now be a Lektiecafé/Studietid (Homework Café/Study Hour) integrated into the schoolday. My kids think it’s a great idea. DS14 had a similar system in his class last year and was glad to be able to do his homework during school hours, leaving his “free” time as “free” time. Or should I say computer time? 😉 DD12 is looking forward to the café because there will be a teacher on hand to help with homework. The Danish political party “de Konservative” disagrees with plans to make the homework café obligatory and believes that kids should be able to “choose to do homework at home with mum and dad”. Ha ha, I literally had to laugh out loud when I heard that! If I had 10 kroner for every time the subject of homework has come up at Parents’ Meetings… A constant source of conflict between parent and child. Who wants to come home from football or piano and restart school stuff? My fellow parents would rather have their eyes gouged out with hot pokers than battle through any more maths problems! 😛
As I said, we are positive. Bring on the changes!
So, there was a smile on my face as gave my kids a hug and waved them off on their bikes at 7.30am this morning. Birds tweeting, the sun shining – you get the picture. Only to hear the garden gate opening a couple of hours later, at 11.30am. “You’re back already?”, I cried. “Yep, we were let off early.” Hmmm, so much for all-day school! 😉